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D Di iv vo or rc ce e P Pr ro oo of f Y Yo ou ur r Ma ar rr ri ia ag ge e T T T Th h h he e e e R R R Re e e el l l la a a at t t ti i i io o o on n n ns s s sh h h hi i i ip p p p D D D Dy y y yn n n na a a a mi i i ic c c cs s s s S S S Sc c c ca a a al l l le e e e Please answer each of the following questions in terms of your relationship with your mate. These questions should be answered by yourself (not with your partner). The ranges on the back of this sheet can be used for your own reflection. Use the following 3-point scale to rate how often you and your partner experience the following: 1 = almost never, 2 = once in awhile, 3 = frequently 1. Little arguments escalate into ugly fights with accusations, criticisms, name-calling, or bringing up past hurts ……………………………………………………………… 1 2 3 2. My partner criticizes or belittles my opinions, feelings, or desires ………………….. 1 2 3 3. My partner seems to view my words or actions more negatively than I mean them to be ………………………………………………………………. 1 2 3 4. When we have a problem to solve, it seems like we are on opposite teams ………… 1 2 3 5. I hold back from telling my partner what I really think and feel ..…………………… 1 2 3 6. I think seriously about what it would be like to date or marry someone else ...……… 1 2 3 7. I feel lonely in this relationship ……………………………………………………… 1 2 3 8. When we argue, one of us withdraws… that is doesn’t want to talk about it anymore; or leaves the scene …………………………………………………………………… 1 2 3 Who tends to withdraw more when there is an argument? ____Male ____Female ____Both Equally ____Neither Tend to Withdraw Turning Point Counseling is one of the largest professional Christian counseling ministries in Southern California. We have over 30 counseling offices conveniently placed in local churches. We seek to establish Healing Communities where our counselors integrate solid Christian principles with professional counseling to provide “Tender Help for Tough Problems.” Turning Point Counseling is a Christian counseling referral you can trust for professional, convenient, affordable counseling for individuals, families, couples and children. If you are faced with a difficult personal, emotional, or relational issue: Call for an appointment today! Ask for a counselor in your area 1-800-998-6329 Adapted from Markman, H.J., Stanley, S.M. & Blumberg, S.L. (1994) Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for a Loving and Lasting Relationship. San Francisco, Jossey Bass, Inc.